The Psychology of Thoughts We Shouldn't Have | 
Welcome to the mental jungle we all secretly inhabit.
Where overthinking is an Olympic sport, childhood traumas still echo, and confidence is a shape-shifter.
Where sex, shame, love, fear, ego, and the endless pursuit of “being enough” collide in chaotic beauty.
This isn’t therapy.
This is you, unfiltered.
Hosted by Katara Lilith from EliKay.Space — part philosopher, part psychologist, part rebel soul — this podcast explores the raw, real, brutally honest inner monologues we all have but rarely admit. From toxic relationships to self-love, from confidence to kink, from existential dread to the audacity of healing — nothing is off-limits.
We think it.
She says it.
Welcome to The Mind We Live In.
It’s messy in here. 18+
You’ll feel right at home!

𝓌𝑒 𝒸𝑜𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝒸𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝓅𝓈𝓎𝒸𝒽𝑜𝓁𝑜𝑔𝒾𝒸𝒶𝓁 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓈:

 trauma, childhood wounds, self-worth, confidence, rejection, abandonment, the inner child, attachment, validation, identity, self-awareness, codependency, dissociation, overthinking, people-pleasing, guilt, shame, self-sabotage, emotional regulation, nervous system healing, depression, anxiety, libido psychology, trauma bonding, emotional unavailability, survival mode, narcissistic dynamics, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, perception, resentment, forgiveness, victim mindset, and the subconscious mind.

𝓇𝑒𝒸𝓊𝓇𝓇𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝓅𝓈𝓎𝒸𝒽𝑜𝓁𝑜𝑔𝒾𝒸𝒶𝓁 𝓅𝒶𝓉𝓉𝑒𝓇𝓃𝓈 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝑒𝓍𝓅𝓁𝑜𝓇𝑒:

fear of abandonment, suppressed anger, need for approval, projection in relationships, power dynamics in love, the inner critic, parent–child emotional echoes, guilt around rest and self-care, performative love vs. authentic connection, women’s emotional processing, and the psychology of male and female desire, power, and resentment.

𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓅𝓈𝓎𝒸𝒽𝑜𝓁𝑜𝑔𝓎 𝑜𝒻 𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽𝓉𝓈 𝓌𝑒 𝓈𝒽𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹𝓃’𝓉 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒:

raw emotional honesty, self-awareness journeys, why we think what we think, how trauma shapes relationships, the psychology of words, confidence, sex, trauma, self-love, the philosophy of emotion, understanding human behavior, why we choose unavailable people, how to heal from rejection, is it trauma or truth, adult reactions rooted in childhood pain, healing your nervous system, and the path from survival to self-love